Bisexual People Go Home For The Holiday
Whether you are a student or a worker working outside the home, holiday go home are worth looking forward to. Maybe you are excited about going home, maybe you will also feel fear. This sounds contradictory, but it is a fact. What I want to tell you here is that these emotions are real. Because not all members of every family can accept bisexual people, everyone has their own sexuality. Even if we are accepted by many friends and colleagues around us, it means that we may be misunderstood and discriminated by family members when we return home during the holidays. There are many people who have encountered this problem, you are not alone. Here are some of the main issues and solutions, let's face it together.
By reducing the potential conflict between you and your family, let them accept that you are a bisexual woman or bisexual man. Some psychologists have said: "When a person makes a decision not because of fear or sorrow, then the decision becomes very firm." Do you have to be home every holiday? It may be that some bisexual people feel that going home to face ridicule will make them shy, so choose to avoid family. And a brave bisexual people is dare to face all the doubts and discrimination, this is an adventure for them. So first you have to have the courage to overcome this difficulty. If you can't even do it with your family, you may not be accepted by them. Of course this is not a one-time decision. If you can't do it in a while, it doesn't mean you can't do it next year or in the future.
Your bisexual dating may be very secretive, but as long as it is outing, it will inevitably be discovered by others. But it does not mean that your bisexual dating has been found to be bad. In bisexual dating, most bisexual women are choose to be with different genders, the same as bisexual men. This will make most people think that we are straight. This also gives our family an illusion "We have agreed on this, right?" Every time you can deal with some embarrassing and clever answers (of course, maybe both of you are just joking). When you have not chosen to go out bisexual dating, the remarks about you as a bisexual people may make you angry. Any lesbian woman, gay or queer wants to defend his dignity and image. "People usually feel the need to be at home Choose between your own interests and a bisexual woman. My advice to you is to choose the best for you: if you think that going home and family reunion is an irreplaceable thing, then Even if your sexual orientation is different from others, you will not be seen by your family as "another".
Bisexual people think it is difficult to find a community. Many bisexual women think they have been discriminated against and rejected in some LGBT communities. Bisexual people are unlikely to have bisexual dating with their family and friends, which greatly reduces the ability of those bisexual women who really need to find bisexual dating. Human beings exist in society, and loneliness is the most terrible. When you choose to stay in touch with a family that doesn't accept you, it's just the only measure you take to stay alone. Maybe you can try the Bisexual Group where you can make friends with bisexual people on the Internet.